a proper one

19. There were a group of boys who goes around asking for donations. They claim that one of them are gifted and would be able to bless you with “fortune” by giving you a lucky 4 digit number. Told those boys we were not interested but their “leader” pushed a young mute boy in front of us to start the little ceremony. Imagine my horror when the young boy starts mumbling in prayer, took a blazer out and starts grazing it on his tongue with blood trickling to his shirt. The “leader” assured us it’s part of the ritual but I got so sick, I gave them some money and tell them to leave immediately.

Why do some people, especially them kids would do such crazy things for money.

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Where should I begin… *winks*

Blah blah blah. The birthday celebration this year was GREAT. I had 1 cake at home and 2 surprise cakes. I feel so loved. The number of candles I blew this year makes me a 71 year old woman. *LOL* I am not complaining especially when all three cakes were very the yummy. *winks*

The Cherry Third Quarter Kinky Queen took me out for dinner and drinks the week before. She shared her surprising news which didn’t surprise me that much. The only thing I asked was “How do you know?” I get the same standard confusing answer. “You know”. That aside, I am truly very happy for her and can’t wait for that big day because SHE PROMISE ME I’LL BE ONE OF HER FLOWER GIRLS! *LOL*

Because of her I was called out on stage by the band member. I was so shy; the whole thing was just a blur. All I remembered was the spotlight, a guy pushes his friend to me and the Submarine that made me lost the feel of my face for a couple of minutes. It was a very good night. Thanks Cherry Third Quarter Kinky Queen. You know who you are! *kiss kiss*

Last Friday I had another session at the same location where the band is great and the ambience is better *whistles* It was another blurry but definitely fun and crazy night. One fixed “activity” during an outing like this is the “Hunt the Drunk”. When we notice the other birthday chick is missing, I held another friend’s hand and off we went searching for her. After going up and down the stairs twice, with my head hurting and the world becomes bleary, I dragged my friend down the stairs too fast and she slams into a giant bunting. *LOL* Poor thing. Of course I would not admit it was my fault. *LOL* So damn funny.

Pics courtesy of Monster

Valentine’s Day is the best day ever.

I had luncheon & egg sandwich for dinner with extra mayo and iced coffee and it was super yummy!!! It’s fattening, but it is V Day. Give me a break will ya? *LOL* What do you guys expect? It is like every other day so, there is no story there.

*sticks tongue out*

To everyone, thanks for the birthday wishes.

Really appreciate it.

Being 31 so far is… interesting.

For some weird indescribable reason, the world became happy again.

At least for now.

*woohoo*

thank goodness for common sense!

The first 3 finalist of A.I.8.
1. Alexis Grace
2. Michael Sarver
3. Danny Gokey

*claps hand*
Too bad for Adoop Desai though. Hopefully he's in the wild card round and one of the juries will pick him instead. *Keeps fingers crossed*

Also keeping my fingers crossed for Tatiana to stay out of the Top 12 finalist. She sings well yesterday but I dislike her personality. The psychotic or the demure one? Both.
*sticks tongue out*

how u doin'?

12. I had my first and last birthday party when I was twelve years old. I cannot remember the exact number of people I’ve invited but I do remember the number of people who actually turned up. Two. From that year onwards, birthdays have always been a drag for me.

13. The first time I had my under wired bra was the day I, and many others realize I actually have boobs. *winks*

14. I was ten when I heard my friends talking about period. Curiosity killed the cat. My mom scolded me for learning a bad word from my friends.

15. My siblings and I found colored balloons from my uncle’s drawer when I was like what? 7 or 9? It wasn’t until years later I realized those were actually condoms.

16. I always had this vision in my head when I was young. For many years I thought it was just my imagination or something that I have dreamt before. I can see my father coming out from the car, shaking his head and my aunt became hysterical. During my psychology class in college many years later, it hit me. I confirmed it with my mom and that may be my earliest childhood memory. The day my paternal grandma died.

17. I got stood up once in college before. I was supposed to meet a guy whom I met and chat with for months through MIRC. We could chat and later speak on the phone for hours and hours about anything and everything. One day he asked me to meet up and I agreed. I waited for an hour and tried calling him on his phone. He never showed up nor picked up my call. My reason: he saw me and didn’t like what he sees. Of course I was upset but I did learn many things from this experience and one of it to make sure I look damn good before I meet anyone for the first time. Thank goodness I never had a similar experience anymore after that. LOL.

18. One crazy night many many full moons ago. With the idiotic “experiment”, the psychotic idiot whom I thought was showing off his body but apparently was showing his weapon and I meant that literally, the sneaking out through a back door exit to avoid the about-to-happen raid at a popular club and running, or rather trying not to fall down the spiral stairs made me realized I was too old for that kind of madness. It was great fun but too much will “kill” me. And the two day “hangover” just made it easy for me to quit.

You must be thinking I am mad for sharing no 17. I don’t know. I am just not bothered by it anymore. I’ve wanted to share about it many moons ago especially when people forces me to hear them preach about inner beauty blah blah blah. LOL. We don’t live in a perfect world. I know this and it is okay.

Many things to share but I do not have the time nor the mind to do it.

Later. Take care people.

7 to 11

7. I thought I was a goner when a psychotic cab driver stopped his car in the middle of the road during high traffic because he was pissed with the jam

8. The first concert I attended was Jimmy Lam’s (a Taiwanese artist) concert in KDCA. I was at the front row and when I managed to touch his hand, I was sure I’ll be the future Mrs Jimmy Lam

9. I didn’t like the taste of beer the first time I had it but I kept drinking it anyway because my friends were enjoying it. Had major rash problem the next day and I thought I would never touch that stuff again. *whistles*

10. Remember the scene in “Kuch Kuch Hota Hei” where Anjali Sharma tried her best to “dressed up” like Tina that is the scene where I cry the most. I feel you Anjali and I sometime still

11. My hands would tremble and my heart would be racing EVERYTIME I called The First Crush despite me calling him at least once a week for few years. I have never made that many phone call to a single guy ever since. *LOL*

dewa

Most of you know my family is an avid Indonesian soap opera fan. With one television, or rather with one as.tro at home, chances of watching those shows are pretty high. The current obsession is Intan, a drama about this girl whose life is so depressing, my life looks like a freakin’ fairytale.

Intan met Ello. Got pregnant. Married Ello. Ello died. Continued to live with Ello’s family. Intan met Rado. Everyone disapproves. Found her biological mom. Mom needs kidney. Surprise surprise only Intan’s kidney matches. Everyone disagrees but Intan donates one kidney to her biological mom anyway. Ello’s brother, Romi fell in love with Intan. Ello’s mom prefers Intan to marry Romi instead of Rado. Intan’s only kidney fails. Surprise surprise only Romi’s kindney can save Intan. Ello’s mom’s condition for Romi to donate his kidney is for Intan to marry Romi. Rado wanting Intan to live left Intan. Intan devastated agreed to marry Romi. After the operation, on their wedding day Romi told Intan to find Rado. Intan’s beloved grandma past away. Because this drama is so twisted Rado and Intan finally got together only to lose her (and Ello’s) son in a car accident that left Rado blind. When everyone finally approves Intan and Rado relationship, Rado died in a fire. The thing is he didn’t die but he regained his sight, lost his memory and married to another girl who calls him Aditya. He also became the world’s biggest and worst flirt. He and the wife bumped into Intan at her new workplace. Knowing Intan is “confused” Rado/Aditya messes with her mind. Of course, Intan’s boss, Dewa is also in love with her.

This is the summary of the 170 episodes with more to come. *LOL* Yes, you didn’t miss much.

The fact that I dislike the over-acting and the exaggerated story line did not stop me from watching the show every weekday. But it is not Intan I want to talk about. It’s Dewa Saputra, Intan’s boss.

He is very uptight, no-nonsense but deep inside he's a big softie who for some weird reason is allergic to women.

And surprise surprise *rolls eyes* he’s not allergic to Intan!

Anyway reason for this entry was last night’s scene. Since Dewa realized he has feelings for Intan, he went and bought a book on how to court a girl because he is weird and cute like that. Yes, a book. Comel kan? *grins* It was so hilarious and adorable! Since Valentine’s Day is just few days away… here’s a few tips on how NOT to court a girl.

1. When courting a girl, you must look the girl in the eye with all tenderness and tell her having dinner with her is your utmost dream

The first thing Dewa did when he saw Intan was to massage his eyes and tried his very best to give the Puss in Boots look, which he failed miserably. Too much weird eye twitching going on

Do this and end up looking like a mental patient

2. Tell a girl to her face that you like her without the fuss of the language of love and ask her out

Dewa went screaming at Intan telling her his feelings and demanded Intan to date him which scared the hell out of her

Dewa looked liked a bloody stalker and this is only suitable for those who are planning to get a restraining court order

3. Arrange for a romantic dinner and invite her without telling her in advance the reason for the outing

He called Intan while she was doing OT in the office. When Intan refused, Dewa told her this is part of her job. Intan, which btw is the “office girl” brought with her, her cleaning tools and actually paid the strollers in coins and tells them to play 3 songs for her.

Yes, a guaranteed date but embarrassing most definitely

*LOL* Trust me. It’s funnier to watch than to read it. Where can I get a dewa within the next four days? *whistles*